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New Rule: Tame your Passionate PDA's or face Jail
Oscar , Oaxaca: Jan 20 2009
Made Popular Jan 20 2009
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New Rule: Tame your Passionate PDA's or face Jail

Thay say a “kiss is just a kiss”, or is it? Have you ever been out in public with your kids and happen upon a young couple showing eachother their “undying love“?

I have. Last week, my wife and took the kids to the cinema. It was a beautiful day, one of those rare moments when the entire family and our moods fell perfectly into sync; we were happy, giddy, without a care in the world. I had just finished paying for the tickets and turned to see my ten year old daughter, Isa, enthralled in a free live show being given by a young couple on the cinema waiting area couch.

I quickly grabbed my daughter, hoping she hadn’t really taken in the full scene, of course, it was too late. I could see Isa’s mind racing as she stood wide eyed and blurted out “Did you see that, he had his tongue in her mouth and their hands were everywhere, they looked like one big octopus. Gross!”

I was furious and my wife was rabid. She had squared off and had almost made it to the unknowing couple before I caught up with her and dragged her back in line. “What the hell! If I wanted Isa to watch porn, I’d pay for PAY PER VIEW and throw her a slumber party.” she fumed. “I’d love to find their parents and let them know what a fine job they’ve done in raising a bunch of exhibitionist.” she ranted. So much for the family moods in perfect sync, although the boys were unfazed, I was angry, my wife wanted blood, and my daughter kept repeating how the boy had his tongue “like so far in her mouth I thought the girl would choke.”

Some might consider me old fashioned, but I was taught such acts were not meant for public display. Don’t get me wrong. I love passion, and I will not even begin the debate on whether or not young love is real or not, but I have two very big issues with what I find happening more and more ofton in family parks, theaters, and on the streets. First of all, my wife and I have worked hard to maintain morals and values in our children. Our sons are old enough to look past what they see, but my daughter and other children do not need to be subjected to ones unbridled passion. Secondly, I find it disrespectful to the girl or woman involved, even if they, themselves, have no objections.

So, what are our choices in today’s society? The way I look at it, we have three. We could: a)Confine ourselves to our home b)I could let my enfuriated wife loose on every young lover she locked into her sights performing “unappropriate acts in public” or c)we could pack up and move to Guanajuato.

The city government in Guanajuato, Mexico, is threatening to jail couples found kissing in public.

The conservative mayor of Guanajuato says he is on a mission to improve values and civility in the city.

A light kiss or embrace will still be acceptable, but couples that indulged in what he called “Olympian grappling” could face a fine or up to three days in prison.

He said passionate or prolonged kissing on the street was embarrassing for school children.-ABC NEWS

The mayor is also vowing to crackdown on excessive/harsh swearing in public, street vendors and beggers. Although protestors are claiming the new rule is a return of the Spanish Inquisition, I’ve got to admit, I like it. I am man who is all for love, I just want each to have their own love. If you are a lover of PDA, take no offense, just be a little more stingy; you can love all you like, in private.

New Rule: Tame your Passionate PDA's or face Jail

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hmm...well O, I don’t know what to say, I must admitt i laughed hard at Isa’s words, but I come from a country where PDA is so frowned upon it’s frustrating. Teenagers and couples in Egypt have NO where to go, as I mentioned before in one of my posts, there is no venue here for couples to have any privacy, in Cinema’s, couples engaging in ANY form of PDA are kicked out, in the streets, they’re hassled by cops and threatened and blackmailed into being taken to prison that they end up having to bribe a couple of rude cops with nothing better to do with their time.
There’s really no way to regulate PDA, who says what’s too much you know?
Anyway, I’m sorry Isa had to witness that and surely there should have been more consideration to just how PUBLIC their display of affection was and who’s watching and who might just get their mind scarred.
Make sure you explain it to her though, and try to make sure she isn’t permanently horrified from PDA or french kissing.
I know she would have been subjected to this sooner or later, Im just sorry it had to be so soon.
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Oscar
Oaxaca, Mexico
good morning, Sarah..

I actually thought alot about your post and Egypt’s corrupt ”moral police”.and to be honest, in No way would I like to see that here...Trust me, we have enough corrupt police to worry about...

and..I don’t at all think ”jailtime” should be on the table, that just seems a bit much...but it IS a problem..

I’d like to think of my wife and I as pretty tolerate people..Hell, it’s not as if we we never young..but there’s a limit to what should be done in public..

The sheer fact that this young couple was practically laying down on a couch and displaying enough for my daughter to practically give an official positive identification of the girls tonsils (let alone the hands) goes to show it had gone TOO FAR..

I do NOT actually think this should be a law and as I said, I definitly don’t think jail time should be on the table for french kissing, but I do think maybe having some type of ”watchful eye” reminding people ”hey, you’re in public...why don’t you take this somewhere private” would go along way..

Also it is important to understand Guanajuato is NOT against PDA’s and is NOT banning kissing, hugging, touching, etc in ANY AREA, just excessive and or lewd public acts..
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agreed:)
(Global Perspectives)
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hmmmm... This is sad... and...euh... funny... I mean, any parent would worry if they had their kids watching a live scene like that... but the funny part is: u have one hell of a daughter who knows how to express what’s on her mind!! LOL
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Oscar
Oaxaca, Mexico
Yes, Isa is QUITE opinionated, well beyond her years:

http://jacqui.instablogs.com/entry/my-darling-isabela-a-fathers-shame-and-joy/

I don’t want a type of ”moral police” running around Mexico, too each their own; I just want to be given a choice to see it or not, especially for my daughter..
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PDA is okay but too much of it is just really sick. I don’t want my child to see live making-outs in streets too.
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